What Is One Decision You Regret, and What Did You Learn From It?

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Every leader has faced moments where hindsight brings clarity. Regret is not a sign of failure—it’s a sign of growth. Reflecting on a past decision that didn’t go as planned allows leaders to extract valuable lessons, demonstrate humility, and become more effective in the future.

The Decision I Regret

Several years ago, I was leading a team through a major organizational shift. We were expanding rapidly, and I had the opportunity to promote someone into a key leadership position. This person had been with the company for a long time, was loyal, and showed potential—but deep down, I knew they weren’t ready for the demands of the new role.

Despite my reservations, I moved forward with the promotion, largely because I wanted to reward their dedication and maintain internal morale. Within months, the consequences became clear. The individual struggled with the pressure, team performance declined, and ultimately, we had to restructure the department again—creating confusion and mistrust among the team.

What I Learned

1. Make Decisions Based on Readiness, Not Loyalty

Loyalty is important, but it should not override objective assessment. Promotions must be grounded in capability, experience, and potential for growth—not emotional obligation.

2. Trust Your Instincts

As a leader, your gut feeling is often a reflection of experience and observation. Ignoring that instinct—especially when paired with clear evidence—can lead to poor outcomes.

3. Have Difficult Conversations Early

Instead of avoiding a tough discussion about development needs, I should have been honest about the readiness gap and offered a growth plan. Transparent conversations build trust and provide support before mistakes happen.

4. Monitor and Adapt Quickly

When a decision isn’t working, acknowledge it. I waited too long, hoping things would improve, which caused more damage. Leadership means being willing to pivot when the facts demand it.

5. Own the Outcome

I didn’t blame the individual for the failure. I took responsibility for the decision and used it as a coaching opportunity for myself and others. That accountability helped rebuild trust.


Regret, when reflected on constructively, becomes a powerful teacher. It reminds us that leadership isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being honest, learning continuously, and striving to make better choices moving forward.

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